Sorry I don't have any divorce lawyer friends. So I'm soliciting advice from where I can get it. My ex and I have been divorced for 5 years. I've been paying her $250 a month for child support. (Not much, I know). This is to pay for half of the kids healthcare and prescription for ADHD. No big deal. I lost my job recently. She's letting the child support go until I find a new job. (No problem). But she wants the money when I start my new job. She makes considerable more money than me probably around 4 times. She has a 5 bedroom house and a house at the beach with a pool. I have a 2000 sq ft townhouse. She's been posting on social media about the renovations she's been making to her beach house. She's there every weekend even with gas at $4.00 a gallon. I told her she seems to be doing okay without the $250 and if maybe I could stop making the payments since it seems like she doesn't need it. She says she does need it, and if we went to court I would be ordered to pay a lot more. I'm wondering if I should call her bluff? We currently have 50/50 custody of the kids. I'm not sure why I should still have to pay for child support. I'd like to keep that $250 and do something fun for the kids.