Ahh! Situation...feedback Encouraged

[Mrs Pantherfan]

in all honesty...just forget about her...stop texting her back..stop talking to her all together...she'll get the hint...maybe..hopefully....

[bleys]

in all honesty...just forget about her...stop texting her back..stop talking to her all together...she'll get the hint...maybe..hopefully....

do this. because then she'll show up at your front door, hop on it and then you can get some closure to move on.

[Kuech Da Sneak]

I don't care how it sounds, but you better be wary of a girl that stays the night at a guy's house and insists they just 'made-out.'

Be honest with your damn self. How many times have you spent the night with a hot girl after a date, only made out, then went to sleep perfectly fine?

You either need to fug her and move on, or ignore her and move on. It really doesn't sound worth all the hoops you're having to jump through, and it doesn't sound like she'll have her many, many issues fixed anytime soon.

You can't fix them, only she can.

[davos]

Bleys I know man...my problem is that I'm not the type that can just ignore/tell someone to fug off. At the same time, I'm not emotionally invested but she is clinging like stage 50 right now. This isn't a girl I'd just wanna bang and then peace out but I'm not letting her play me for a fool. I'm calling her out on sh*t and she somehow maintains some grip outta nowhere. I shouldn't be this stressed right now god dammit!!!!!!!

She is interested in the long run but not now which is the sh*t making me crazy. I just wanna live my last month of college before I move out west. I may use tonight as a venture out and find something else night. So yeah, that'll at least ease the short term annoyance.

Thanks for the advice troops

btw...Her ex-fiance seems like a complete softy who fell completely over the first girl that said that L word.

fug this sh*t

Honestly, I just need to learn to press the reality ignore button a little better

[CatofWar]

he ruined her.

[Kuech Da Sneak]

She tells you she's interested in the long run, but what, if anything, in all of her conflicting actions tells you that?

It sounds like she's keeping you around to be her emotional sponge, with the wafty promise of some pussy here or there, while she does her own thing, and you're sunk on it.

You might think you're calling her out on her poo, but if she maintains a grip on you like you say, then she's only letting you think that.

It sounds like she's well versed in how to play the game.

Like someone else said, just ignore her calls and texts. Act like you're doing you, hang out visibly with other people(preferably other women). If she truly wants you, she'll be beating down your door to jump your bones out of jealousy and fear of losing you.

If she couldn't give two fugs about you being out with other women, then you need to move on, and get the best out of college life before you move.

[davos]

What I see is that she is trying to play me as a future boyfriend fail safe with a solid job in the near future to pay off her loans and debt...meanwhile she's trying to see the "hottest" guy she can get to try and hookup with here. So she's thus trying to walk a very fuggin thin line.

I need to run

[CatofWar]

yes. shes using you as a pawn.

[davos]

She tells you she's interested in the long run, but what, if anything, in all of her conflicting actions tells you that?

It sounds like she's keeping you around to be her emotional sponge, with the wafty promise of some pussy here or there, while she does her own thing, and you're sunk on it.

You might think you're calling her out on her poo, but if she maintains a grip on you like you say, then she's only letting you think that.

It sounds like she's well versed in how to play the game.

Like someone else said, just ignore her calls and texts. Act like you're doing you, hang out visibly with other people(preferably other women). If she truly wants you, she'll be beating down your door to jump your bones out of jealousy and fear of losing you.

If she couldn't give two fugs about you being out with other women, then you need to move on, and get the best out of college life before you move.

fug it

tonight will a good night out and I'll find something downtown to relieve this unnecessary bullsh*t

I'm done caring about this

thanks guys/gals

[Kettle]

she's definitely keeping you on the back burner. find one who wants you in the oven.

[logic1977]

Man. Reading this makes me greatly thankful for the wisdom you gain as you get older. Run dude run

[TNPanther]

Yeah I'd hate to say it, but this girl is fuging with you bigtime. She is totally trying to rebound with you. If you want to, tap it and run, but you can only do that as long as you don't get emotionally involved yourself. She may be even more clingy and try to break down your door, and the best advice I can give you is to slowly back out. Yes, keep talking to her, but casual conversations only. The second she sends you a lovey text, ignore it. Eventually, as she gets a hint (hopefully) just say that you want to be friends for now. By then she may have found another guy to fug around with. Basically, what I'm saying is if you want to fug her do it, but don't let her toy with your emotions.

[Guest]

What I see is that she is trying to play me as a future boyfriend fail safe with a solid job in the near future to pay off her loans and debt...meanwhile she's trying to see the "hottest" guy she can get to try and hookup with here. So she's thus trying to walk a very fuggin thin line.

I need to run

Sounds like someone beat some sense into you :D

[bleys]

Bleys I know man...my problem is that I'm not the type that can just ignore/tell someone to fug off. At the same time, I'm not emotionally invested but she is clinging like stage 50 right now. This isn't a girl I'd just wanna bang and then peace out but I'm not letting her play me for a fool. I'm calling her out on sh*t and she somehow maintains some grip outta nowhere. I shouldn't be this stressed right now god dammit!!!!!!!

She is interested in the long run but not now which is the sh*t making me crazy. I just wanna live my last month of college before I move out west. I may use tonight as a venture out and find something else night. So yeah, that'll at least ease the short term annoyance.

Thanks for the advice troops

btw...Her ex-fiance seems like a complete softy who fell completely over the first girl that said that L word.

fug this sh*t

Honestly, I just need to learn to press the reality ignore button a little better

well man, either you adapt or enough women like this will force you to adapt.. not all women, but there are plenty that will help you turn into that guy, eventually..