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That father feeling

Ja Rhule

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Pejorative Miscreant Grand Master

Pejorative Miscreant

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On 10/3/2016 at 10:59 AM, ARSEN said:

One can get pregnant and have their life ruined the other can just move on with little to no strings attached.

I have 10 year ole boys and while I agree with this point conceptuall, if one of my boys were to ever do this and try to "move on" my wife, their mother would totally fugg them up.  I would totally agree with her as there is no way you can turn your back on this responsibility.  Even then, she would still me up for being their scumbag father....

 

That said I am glad I have boys but I dont think I/ they are 100% in the clear. Hang in there. 

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On 10/3/2016 at 10:48 AM, PhillyB said:

why is a girl a scum piece of meat if she has sex with a guy but a guy isn't a victim of becoming a scum piece of meat if he has sex with the girl? why aren't we telling teenage boys the girl they have to bring home is gonna get interviewed at the point of a shotgun to make sure she's not seducing them and turning them into scummy tainted meat?

there's a vast gulf in how we treat the two and imo it's a reflection of the fact that we (unconsciously) appropriate sexual activity much, much differently depending on whether males or females are having the sex... it just seems fuged up is all i'm saying. i used to adhere to stuff like this and i always imagined i'd be that dad, but now i'm the farthest thing from it. i can't see being that guy, even in a less sensationalized form. i think it's better to teach all kids respect for self, others, and personal health/safety regardless of their gender than to control one's actions and laud the other's.

Why don't girls ever get accused of rape on college campuses during drunken hookups? Based on this new definition of college campus rape, girls rape guys on campuses probably 100 times a day across the country.

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