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My girlfriend wants to experiment with girls. (Please Help)


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Yea, probably right. That was around 2 years ago and I've had plenty of solid relationships......It's quite a bit of work to stay emotionally stable and not get pissed off when you're having deadly objects flung at your head, or live in the circumstances I've lived in. Pretty much all the fighting has stopped, we might argue once and a while, but thats it and nothing comes from it...I just leave and go walk or shut and lock the door to my office...

1. everything that I've listed above in the thread.

2. She's Bi Polar and has PCOS...-> the PCOS is being treated and is a hormonal problem...while she doesn't take anything for the Bi-polar.

There's other things on top of that.....But those are the major two things I'm dealing with....

So not counting the other issues in this thread, it's not pleasant right now.

I can't really just kick her out, she's on the Lease...I'm kinda stuck, I mean yea we could break up and her still live with me......But that's just as messed up a situation as the one I'm currently in...

If I broke lease, I'd owe around a 1,000 dollars if not more, plus I'd have to be able to afford the security deposit and first month on another apartment.

Which at the moment I can't afford.

I think you know what you have (need) to do. You don't need this. No woman is worth this. Get out and go find you another woman. There are plenty of women who wish they had a decent man and can't seem to find them. You can be that guy.

Until then, move out. Crash at a friend's place. Just go.

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Reverse the roles here. If you were the crazy one who had a virtual relationship with a 50 year old Canadian woman, would she (or any other woman) put up with that? She would have dumped your ass a long time ago. You need to do the same.

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If she's really Bi-polar and not on anything for it run for the hills. it will take her years of therapy and meds to get to a functional level.

RUN, don't walk trot or power walk, RUN!

I'm as serious as I can be. I speak from experience. Trust me.

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Yeah... you have to get out of the situation physically...

Sure, it all may seem like it has gotten better, but it will flare up again... It is destined to do so...

Heck, go to one of your parents and be honest with them... maybe they can bail you out or something... Worst case scenario - put the $1000 on a low interest credit card, and ask her for her half (if she refuses, threaten legal action with evidence of her mental instability and on and offline activity (I hope you already printed out these chatlogs or emails you talked about, btw))...

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If she's really Bi-polar and not on anything for it run for the hills. it will take her years of therapy and meds to get to a functional level.

RUN, don't walk trot or power walk, RUN!

I'm as serious as I can be. I speak from experience. Trust me.

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Yeah... you have to get out of the situation physically...

Sure, it all may seem like it has gotten better, but it will flare up again... It is destined to do so...

Heck, go to one of your parents and be honest with them... maybe they can bail you out or something... Worst case scenario - put the $1000 on a low interest credit card, and ask her for her half (if she refuses, threaten legal action with evidence of her mental instability and on and offline activity (I hope you already printed out these chatlogs or emails you talked about, btw))...

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Yea, she's really Bi-polar, she was on the medicine for it when she was living with her Dad, but she moved here and she was taken off of it for what ever reason. This is from what she's told me.

If you don't get as far away from her as possible immediately you will regret it.

The Bi-polar mind is a very dangerous thing, only after years of therapy and meds will she even begin to be ready to be in a relationship.

Her cheating is a bad sign. Things will only get worse with her before they get better. She has a long road ahead of her, do you really want to go through all that with her?

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Yea, I have them saved in an email that she doesn't know about. I have the paper she wrote to her friend in school to cover the Hotel business as well hidden.

At least you covered that... I'd go that route then...

Tell her it is over, and that one or both of you need to move out... Ask her for her half of the lease break penalty... If she declines, offer up that you have evidence of her infidelity, and that you won't be afraid to offer it up for a judge (and anyone else in the courtroom) to review... Also mention how tore up this has all made you, but at the same time, that you have no interest in continuing the relationship... (That last part can come into "Pain and Suffering")

My bet is that, with the threat of making her actions public record providing good embarassment ammo, she will:

A. comply and fork over the dough (or get it from her sugardaddy)

B. go on a bipolar rage and set herself up for some nice assault charges to add to the docket

C. kill herself

A & B are most likely, and are the best for all involved (provided she isn't too heavy handed, hahaha)... with A being the most likely solution...

C would really suck for everyone, but I doubt it would happen anyways...

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If you don't get as far away from her as possible immediately you will regret it.

The Bi-polar mind is a very dangerous thing, only after years of therapy and meds will she even begin to be ready to be in a relationship.

Her cheating is a bad sign. Things will only get worse with her before they get better. She has a long road ahead of her, do you really want to go through all that with her?

Everyone might call me a fool, but if it could seriously get better then Yea I would. I knew she was Bi-polar before we got serious, I just didn't know exactly what I was getting myself into. I know part of it is because she's Bi-polar, but all of it can't be.....

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