dammit.

[Darth Urious]

says the BTBAM fan

I admit to being biased, I want to hear drums when I listen to music

pfffffffttttt!

Drums in BTBAM > most any other drums, anywhere...

[Zcustom]

Well it is true.

It's called being realistic and that's all I am being. Realistic.

But you found a girl without having to do that, and I'd be willing to bet she's a much better catch than any girl who'd look the other way because of your weight.

I'm just speaking from experience. I decided at 22, that after I had been put through hell and back with women, that if I didn't find a woman who loved me for all of who I was, without trying to change me in any way, that I'd just never get married.

As fate would have it I met her 5 years later and she's carrying my 2nd child and she's amazing, I couldn't be happier.

[Darth Biscuit]

Slowly bringing this thread where it needs to be...

[Zcustom]

pfffffffttttt!

Drums in BTBAM > most any other drums, anywhere...

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[boo7382]

But you found a girl without having to do that, and I'd be willing to bet she's a much better catch than any girl who'd look the other way because of your weight.

I'm just speaking from experience. I decided at 22, that after I had been put through hell and back with women, that if I didn't find a woman who loved me for all of who I was, without trying to change me in any way, that I'd just never get married.

As fate would have it I met her 5 years later and she's carrying my 2nd child and she's amazing, I couldn't be happier.

this is the cutest thing ever. she is beautiful, and a sweetheart!

[Davidson Deac II]

That's a valid point but to me it's irrelevant. You shouldn't have to change who you are just to find someone, that's when settling happens and it rarely ends well.it's the same thing if someone told you to lose weight or expect to be dateless.

it does take longer to find people since you're searching for such a specialized personality, but that's ok if you ask me.

I certainly would never say that one should give up something like smoking pot to please their partner. But no matter who you eventually find, you are always going to have to make some changes and accomodations to have a good relationship. BTW, I would hate to think that smoking pot, or drinking or anything like that defines who I am.

[Zcustom]

this is the cutest thing ever. she is beautiful, and a sweetheart!

very beautiful

I'm still waiting for Zod to post her huddle kitten shoot pics. I haven't seen them since the crash, I really hope they aren't gone forever.

[Darth Biscuit]

very beautiful

I'm still waiting for Zod to post her huddle kitten shoot pics. I haven't seen them since the crash, I really hope they aren't gone forever.

U let Zod take pics of your wife? :eek:

[Hawk]

Slowly bringing this thread where it needs to be...

boobs should never be tatooed....man law

[JakeFlake]

this is a highly revealing (pun very much intended) and useful thread.

[Darth Biscuit]

boobs should never be tatooed....man law

Settle down Beavis... trying to make a point...

[Hawk]

I appreciate you making a point...and I like that you were trying to get the thread back on the important topics....just saying!!!

[The Saltman]

[Zcustom]

I certainly would never say that one should give up something like smoking pot to please their partner. But no matter who you eventually find, you are always going to have to make some changes accomodations to have a good relationship. I would hate to think that smoking pot, or drinking or anything like that defines who I am.

True. In the context as it applies to boo though she's just looking to date, not marry, and she should be able to be a pot smoker without that affecting dating prospects.