Today's PSA

[Hawk]

all y'all...if you listen to only one thing I ever say...please, make it be this.

regardless of how strong you think your relationship is, you have to work on it "ALWAYS"!!!

don't get lazy, don't take it for granted, pretend everyday is the last day you have together and make the most of it.

[Tarheel31]

Somebody is in the doghouse!

[X-Clown]

folks...if you listen to only one thing I ever say...please, make it be this.

regardless of how strong you think your relationship is, you have to work on it "ALWAYS"!!!

don't get lazy, don't take it for granted, pretend everyday is the last day you have together and make the most of it.

Jase isn't putting out?

[Mrs Pantherfan]

I really hate the word "folks"...can you people not use another word?? seriously..I f*cking hate it...

and Hawk...what did you do??

[Inimicus]

Ive wanted to ask someone this for a long time.

What the hell does that even mean? What does "work" consist of?

I mean Ive contended for years that couples that have to "work" on it might do well to reconsider who they are with.

So please tell me what you mean when you say "you have to work on it".

<--married for almost 25 years

[Hawk]

I got lazy!

work...keep talking to each other, make sure you change together instead of change and drift apart!

[mr beauxjangles]

I take it as meaning don't get complacent. There's a very fine line between being comfortable and being complacent.

[Hawk]

very well said!! I always thought I was comfortable...in reality, I was being very complacent and it almost cost me dearly.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

I got lazy!

work...keep talking to each other, make sure you change together instead of change and drift apart!

:( I hope everything is ok!

[Jangler]

so...did you buy valentine candy from a drug store?

[Scrumtrilescent]

A Hallmark card is a Hallmark card!

[Inimicus]

I'm glad you caught it before things got away from you Hawk and I'm not trying to pry into your business.

So maybe someone else can answer this part of it. Can someone give me an example of a situation that is complacent and how it would be different if they were "working on it".

I swear I'm not trolling. This is something that's been a head scratcher for me for many years.

[SamTheRam]

Did you fart in front of her "folks"?

[mr beauxjangles]

very well said!! I always thought I was comfortable...in reality, I was being very complacent and it almost cost me dearly.

glad to see the word "almost" included in that sentence.