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Me and the gf broke up

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Dated for a year. Sucks because I really wanted it to work out. She was a very sweet, loyal girl but she had a lot of emotional issues as well. Would also nag me constantly over small little things and over time, it would just chip away at my mental state. Sucks because she was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever dated, so that’s def hard to let go.  

Any advice on how to get over a girl when you know it wasn’t going to work but still want to hold on to  and miss the  positives of the relationship?

 

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1 hour ago, Yaboychris28 said:

Dated for a year. Sucks because I really wanted it to work out. She was a very sweet, loyal girl but she had a lot of emotional issues as well. Would also nag me constantly over small little things and over time, it would just chip away at my mental state. Sucks because she was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever dated, so that’s def hard to let go.  

Any advice on how to get over a girl when you know it wasn’t going to work but still want to hold on to  and miss the  positives of the relationship?

 

You must be young.  Been there... You’ll find someone better.  Remember, looks are important but friendship is the glue that keeps relationship together.

There is a saying... no matter how hot the girl is... there is a guy that is tired of nailing  her.

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1 hour ago, ARSEN said:

You must be young.  Been there... You’ll find someone better.  Remember, looks are important but friendship is the glue that keeps relationship together.

There is a saying... no matter how hot the girl is... there is a guy that is tired of nailing  her.

I’m in my 20’s and yeah lol that’s prob true. It sucks, but I’m sure I’ll eventually get over it. Life moves on I guess 

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15 hours ago, Yaboychris28 said:

Dated for a year. Sucks because I really wanted it to work out. She was a very sweet, loyal girl but she had a lot of emotional issues as well. Would also nag me constantly over small little things and over time, it would just chip away at my mental state. Sucks because she was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever dated, so that’s def hard to let go.  

Any advice on how to get over a girl when you know it wasn’t going to work but still want to hold on to  and miss the  positives of the relationship?

 

Man, do I ever have some bad news for you...

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20 minutes ago, Yaboychris28 said:

And what is that?

They're all crazy, you juwt have to find one whose particular type of crazy you can deal with. FWIW, they think the same about us too.

For the most part, men and women are just wired a lot differently emotionally and it's hard for us to understand where the other is coming from because we process the same things much differently emotionally. Not to say one or the other is the right way, it's just different. With that said, for all i know maybe your ex truly did have some type of clinical emotional/mental issue.

 

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9 hours ago, LinvilleGorge said:

They're all crazy, you juwt have to find one whose particular type of crazy you can deal with. FWIW, they think the same about us too.

For the most part, men and women are just wired a lot differently emotionally and it's hard for us to understand where the other is coming from because we process the same things much differently emotionally. Not to say one or the other is the right way, it's just different. With that said, for all i know maybe your ex truly did have some type of clinical emotional/mental issue.

 

She really did have an emotional issue. She had an abusive upbringing with two dead beat parents. She would snap over the smallest things I never would have considered argument worthy in my wildest dreams. I tried to my hardest to fix the issues but a week later the same stuff would arise. Sucks but life goes on I guess

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Pro tips for all you youngsters out there.

1:  That saying about fish in the sea...it's right, there are TONS of women out there.

2:  If she doesn't have friends....like real friends...leave her alone.

3:  It's just as easy to love a rich one as a poor one.

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12 hours ago, Yaboychris28 said:

She really did have an emotional issue. She had an abusive upbringing with two dead beat parents. She would snap over the smallest things I never would have considered argument worthy in my wildest dreams. I tried to my hardest to fix the issues but a week later the same stuff would arise. Sucks but life goes on I guess

Been there and that gets worse not better.  This ending is a good thing man.

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