Jump to content
  • Welcome!

    Register and log in easily with Twitter or Google accounts!

    Or simply create a new Huddle account. 

    Members receive fewer ads , access our dark theme, and the ability to join the discussion!

     

My girlfriend wants to experiment with girls. (Please Help)


P-paw

Recommended Posts

Well, my girlfriend told me today that she'd like to try "things" with other girls. We are both relatively young, but I'm still not sure what to think of the matter..so i was looking for a few second opinion's about this. She said there would be no emotions attached, but I still feel in some way that I would be getting cheated on. I'm not sure if its because in a way I'm jealous or what. But, to be honest...I don't know what to think...and I was just looking to see what some others thought. Here is some random information..

She said that if I was not able to be understanding and what not..she'd want to break up with me...and find a guy that IS. I don't understand un-emotional sex. Well, any help ladies and gentleman? (serious answers please)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Well, my girlfriend told me today that she'd like to try "things" with other girls. We are both relatively young, but I'm still not sure what to think of the matter..so i was looking for a few second opinion's about this. She said there would be no emotions attached, but I still feel in some way that I would be getting cheated on. I'm not sure if its because in a way I'm jealous or what. But, to be honest...I don't know what to think...and I was just looking to see what some others thought. Here is some random information..

She said that if I was not able to be understanding and what not..she'd want to break up with me...and find a guy that IS. I don't understand un-emotional sex. Well, any help ladies and gentleman? (serious answers please)

Any kind of love without passion

That ain't no kind of lovin' at all,

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't know how old you both are, but it sounds to me like she probably has a girlfriend is is either Bi or Gay. That GF is probably telling her how great it is to be with another girl who understand a woman's body.

If you like this girl, let her experiment and see if she comes back to you. More likely she wil find out the "grass isn't greener". But be prepared, this may take a while. Many women who are bi-curious, find that it isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Some really find what they are looking for.

It may take a few months to over a year. You have to decide if you are for sticking around to see how things turn out.

Good luck at whatever you decide.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I would really get the details on how this might benefit you before you make your final decision. This is a good problem to have. Yes, I think it's stupid she'd break up with you for not being okay with it but it's also one of those things you might regret in the future if you don't see it through. Imagine hitting one from behind while she's slaying the other girls clam.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

It sounds like its already bothering you and nothings even happened yet. There is no doubt that the vagina is >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> than the penis. If she figures that out you will be the one hurting while she will be out having wild crazy hot lesbian sex. I would try to scale back your feelings a little and let her do it. You might get introduced to a whole new experience.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

How young is young? From my point of view, that is of an old married guy... I'd say go with Dimbee's advice... if she's talking experiment with you involved, by all means go for it... if it doesn't work out with you and her, so be it. I don't like the ultimatum part of it however... very immature.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Archived

This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.


  • PMH4OWPW7JD2TDGWZKTOYL2T3E.jpg

  • Topics

  • Posts

    • I truly do not understand why we rushed him back last season, we were a bad team with an already productive back in Chuba. Brooks looked like he was 60% back and clearly hadn’t regained full movement in his knee and confidence, no surprise he got reinjured. Shame on this training staff, look no further then Chuba returning too soon this season, I don’t care how bad a player wants to come back a training staff is there to protect them. Brooks is a great person and was an amazing player prior to both injuries, I hope he’s recovering well.
    • Brother thanks for sharing and all. Just for a 21 year army guy you sure over used your brain power on this interaction little too much...  Not that's Im taking a side or nothing, Ive never been a bully fan * in extreme deals bullying in needed..... I've heard from smart people in and around Panthers, Smitty needed Angie for guidance BADLY.  I've honestly thought if Smitty was born 20 years later, he should have taken a MMA path and not only would he have been a champion but a humbled good man with or without Angie helping him. He has never took off the enmoureous chip on his shoulder and it has branched off as a stick in arse over time too. Still everyone can not be or act the same with emotions, we are chemical sacks of water and bones. He reminds me of brain-washed individuals that can not turn off the switch. Plus he is high on thinking he's smarting than he is.......its a dangerous combo, but that's mainly what gave him the edge in life to live out the American dream......soooo I dare say change, but its sad at the same time. All those poor women that get involved with narcissistic disloyal men, one of the few times I agree to take what ever form them in court...
    • Completely agreed.  TBH, we have had so many great players that are in my favorite list, and I hate to narrow it down to one, but Cam is it.  Which is crazy, because you would think it would be more of the guys I grew up watching, but no.  Cam was the single most impactful player to ever out on a football uniform imo.  And like I said in an earlier post, I always felt a kinship with him in a lot of ways…  the way he was treated and judged for the off the field stuff in Florida and having to overcome all of that and fight show at back.  And although I am not a black man, I have always been welcomed by and accepted more by minorities, and thus, I know what it’s like to be judged by appearances rather than the content of your character and who you actually are.  I know what it’s like to be stereotyped and written off or mistreated for your mistakes.  I know what it’s like to be held to a different standard while your peers don’t have to meet that same standard.  So I always related to that.  And the way he came in and just electrified the whole franchise, man…  I still think about it often how much it sucks that because of how talented he was, our staff out so much on him and that ultimately cut his career short.  You’re right, there will never be another Cam…  I think Josh Allen is the closest thing we will see for a long time, but Allen is not the running threat Cam was.  Cam could run you over or around you.  That was THE absolute funnest time to watch our team ever.
×
×
  • Create New...