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Serious (Sad) Question


Captroop

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So a co-worker was set to have twins. Well, she gave birth to one, and the other died. So here's the question, do I get a condolence card or a congratulations card? I mean on the one hand I don't want to give her a congratulations when one of her twins died, but on the other hand I don't want to short-change the birth of a happy healthy child by only acknowledging the tragedy of the situation.

I looked in Hallmark, and they don't have con-trad-ulation cards.

Follow-up question: When, if ever would you tell the surviving twin that they had a sibling?

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Well we got the one issue sewn up; blank card. Good idea there. Hadn't thought of that.

Now for the hypothetical: If you were the parent, would you ever tell the surviving twin that they had a twin? If so, when?

yeah, definitely. I know a couple people this has happened to, one of which was my grandmother. her parents told her and she has known her whole life.

Which also means I could potentially have twins since it skips a generation.

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