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Dex

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Davidson Deac II Grand Master

Davidson Deac II

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23/21 is way to early to concern yourself with being married or not being married.  As long as both of you are comfortable with the current situation, don't worry about it. 

 

What I would do depends on the lady and the financial situation.  I am thinking about taking the wife up to New York for a weekend, broadway play and all that on our anniversary.  But if you can't afford something like that, just make sure you put some thought into it. 

 

Flowers, dinner at a nice restaurant and a night out (perhaps a comedy club) is probably sufficient as long as she likes those kind of things.   But its also about how you do it as much as what you do.    For example, open the car door for her.  Hold her hand when you can.   The little things you do might mean more than the big ones. 

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The problem is that she IS wife material. I'm the one with the commitment issues. You wouldnt believe the stuff she lets me get away with. Seeing her once every two weeks, going out with my friends all the time and sometimes just acting like a douchebag. I just wish I had met her later in my life cause I feel like I'm not ready to settle down with years of one night stands ahead of me. I only got to really have fun from 16-18... But if I let her go now, she will probably be off the market after a couple years.

You can fap to pron and then tell all ur friends how many internet bitches u banged. Win -win.

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As someone who was in a committed relationship from the ages of 17-22 my advice would be to seriously evaluate if you want to be married at your young age or not. If not you're not doing yourself or your girlfriend any favors.

I still look back on that time of my life filled with regret for missed opportunities. She was a great girl but that time of your life is about becoming who you want to be and that's damn near impossible in a relationship.

If you two are meant to be together it will happen regardless of what you do.

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You are college aged correct? Here is my two cents and you can read into it as much or as little as you want.

You are going to wake up tomorrow and you will be 38 years old with two kids, a mortgage, a wife, and real responsibilities. That "time flies" poo that old people say is damn real.

That's all I have to say.

 

 

Which is more full filling tho?

 

 

We usually remember things as being better than they were, under appreciate the things we currently have, and over quantify what "could be"

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I knew this was coming...

 

 

Do what you want and makes you happy. Some people think that everyone wants to party and sleep with a million people when in their 20's.  Not everyone wants that. 

 

Have fun. I'm always a fan of doing something different. Anything different. Maybe a long bike ride or kayaking or horse back riding, a concert or visiting a new town for a day of site seeing and dinner.

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The problem is that she IS wife material. I'm the one with the commitment issues. You wouldnt believe the stuff she lets me get away with. Seeing her once every two weeks, going out with my friends all the time and sometimes just acting like a douchebag. I just wish I had met her later in my life cause I feel like I'm not ready to settle down with years of one night stands ahead of me. I only got to really have fun from 16-18... But if I let her go now, she will probably be off the market after a couple years.

 

 

Well you should figure that poo out quick.

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I dont know what some of these guys are talkin bout Dex, you will NEVER "get it out of your system".

When you are 80 you will still want to see other chicks tits, its in us and we cant get it out.

And if she is like my wife she will look good a lot longer than you will.

You want my advice? Lock her up and during sexy time close your eyes and think about porn you watched on the internet recently.

In 15 years when you are gettin flabby and old shell still be a Milf. Youll thank me.

 

 

lol best advice here imo

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Which is more full filling tho?

We usually remember things as being better than they were, under appreciate the things we currently have, and over quantify what "could be"

I know which one i find more fulfilling. I can't imagine life without my kids. Not sure what I even used to do. My point was there is no wrong choice as long as you make the most of it and don't look back with regrets. Like my two biggest regrets from college are not shaving off all my pubes and not going back to Meatball's for one last meal before I graduated.

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