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My girlfriend wants to experiment with girls. (Please Help)

P-paw

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I'm still laughing that she said it was ok for you to cheat but only with cocks

Lol, I know. Messed up eh? :(

Maybe I can get her to understand if I say something like..

"If you're going to go off and "do" what you like to "do"..so am I!"

Kind of like those comments about how I should tell her I'm going to experiment with other girls.

Lol, that probably wouldn't end well.

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Well, I thought about it..and talked to her about it as well. It seems to her, same sex...sex is okay. No strings attached..anything. But it disappoints me because I had really high hopes to be able to carry our relationship into something long term. And I feel that I still can..it's just she wants to "live" while she can. It's not fair really. She even proposed to me that I could mess around with any guy and she wouldn't be upset. I gave her a funny look, and asked if she was high. But really though, I know she loves me..and she is going to stay exclusive to me. So I guess I should just stop thinking so old fashioned and let her have fun..

I'm still not completely sure what to think about it..

Huddle ladies, were you like this when you were younger?

No...never like that.

I think you are very crazing for even considering it.

gtfo of that relationship now. run dont walk.

Great advice.

You may think you have a future with this woman, but it sure doesn't sound like it. Any woman who gives an ultimatum and threatens to leave you if you don't let her sleep with woman is not worth keeping around. Period.

I think you need to just let her go, to be completely honest.

Good assessment and advice.

Get out as fast as you can.

In 6 months you will be back on here thanking us.

I am serious. GTFO

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I'm not sure why you'd stay with somebody who said they'd end it if you didn't let them cheat on you.

Should be a no brainer.

Your girlfriend is highly unstable. And she's cheating on you already.

Agree and wondering about the stability of someone who would consider this.

Not sure why you asked if you keep arguing for it.

You want us to tell you it is "normal?" Well...it is not. Headed for nothing but trouble.

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I'll give a fresh perspective, given I've just got thrown in the same situation to a point.

My girlfriend and I are pretty serious. I recently moved, she's now 4 and a half hours away from me (I'm just west of Charlotte, she's 30 minutes north of Wilmington...). She has always said she wouldn't mind messing around with a chick and said as long as the chick was down and clean, she'd give it a shot. This was brought up when proposing a threesome. She's not down with a threesome (she's selfish. I proposed I wouldn't touch the other chick. She could do that while I do my thing. She doesnt want me seeing some other chick naked in bed, thus, no threesome anytime soon for me). I digress.

My point is, she has a known bi-sexual chick who isn't terrible looking staying the night with her tonight. I told her, anything goes down, you get on Skype, i watch. That's only fair. Let her live, but make it very clear that you aint fugin around. I say if she wants to, you HAVE to be allowed to participate or at least be in the room watching. Period. If that isn't acceptable, kick the chick to the curb cause even if its with another chick, like many other people have said, cheating is cheating.

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IF she is into chicks, but still loves you, the only solution is for YOU to be the one to go out and pick up the chick to bring home for you and her to share...

If that is a no-go, then you are being strung along as a "best current option" and will be discarded after she finds the next best thing... as evidenced by her willingness to "breakup and find someone who will let her"...

Relationships aren't about "letting" each other do anything... They are about finding a happy medium that suits both parties... If she is getting what she wants while not including your desires to be a part of it, then you are being controlled...

If you allow yourself to be controlled, then you'll get run over... over and over... until you reach your breaking point and turn into the bad guy yourself...

For all the women out there like this that are more than likely wild in the bedroom, there are quiet/reserved women that will give them a run for their money in that department AND treat you right in the process...

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I'm in a similar situation. I've been dating a girl for near two weeks now and although it isn't yet a serious thing she just revealed to me yesterday that she's bisexual and her last relationship was with another girl. I'm not quite sure how to feel about it, but I'm almost certain I don't care. It might get me cheated on, but it might also lead to a threesome.

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