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boo7382 Newbie

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What if she has a boyfriend? It's funny...I've never officially met her before and she knew exactly who I was...and I had no idea who she was.

haha silly its called facebook.

If she has a boyfriend then just see what happens. If she tries to make a move, then be like, Don't you have a bf? and see what she says.

Just be slow and don't rush into it, you will figure it out eventually. Whatever you do don't be a dick and screw her over. We don't like that.

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hepcat Grand Master

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haha silly its called facebook.

If she has a boyfriend then just see what happens. If she tries to make a move, then be like, Don't you have a bf? and see what she says.

Just be slow and don't rush into it, you will figure it out eventually. Whatever you do don't be a dick and screw her over. We don't like that.

So I've been wondering this since I was a young buck...why do girls like to be ignored? Especially if a guy is talking up another girl and she see it. Like the jealousy siren goes off. It seems like you've gotta do some level of ignoring to get a girl to like you. For me, it's the gauge of how much a girl wants me. Ignore a girl and she never tries to talk to you...she ain't interested. Ignore a girl and she's texting you 5 times a day asking you why you haven't called...you've got one.

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So I've been wondering this since I was a young buck...why do girls like to be ignored? Especially if a guy is talking up another girl and she see it. Like the jealousy siren goes off. It seems like you've gotta do some level of ignoring to get a girl to like you. For me, it's the gauge of how much a girl wants me. Ignore a girl and she never tries to talk to you...she ain't interested. Ignore a girl and she's texting you 5 times a day asking you why you haven't called...you've got one.

I guess. I think it depends on the type of girl. I don't do that. If you don't call me, then I'm just not gonna bother. I also just don't want to be that annoying girl who is calling and texting. Or maybe I can just get the hint.

Idk, guess it depends on the girl you are talking about. You dont have to blatantly ignore her, but if you are talking to other girls, she just sees that other girls like you as well.

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I guess. I think it depends on the type of girl. I don't do that. If you don't call me, then I'm just not gonna bother. I also just don't want to be that annoying girl who is calling and texting. Or maybe I can just get the hint.

Idk, guess it depends on the girl you are talking about. You dont have to blatantly ignore her, but if you are talking to other girls, she just sees that other girls like you as well.

I think it's kind of the same for both sides...the reward is so much sweeter if you had to earn it instead of if a girl just comes up to you and basically says I'm open for business. Although more guys than not will say they love that...it leaves you quite unfulfilled.

Yea...the other girls are interested part is crucial...needs to see she's got competition then the game ratches up a notch.

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Because girls compete with each other...for everything.

They don't dress to impress dudes, they dress to look better than other girls.

It isn't about US, it is about THEM, and being the alpha female is similar to being an alpha male, but with different tools.

hahaha half right.

we also dress up to look cute for other girls boyfriends- ba zinnng just kidding.

I do both. I wanna look cuter than other girls, but Im not paying attention to whether or not they are staring, Im paying attention to the guys for that.

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yea boo is a sweethart - her advice is valuable. she's got all the guys vying for her attention and they haven't even seen her picture

Yeah, she seems genuine from her posts. and gave you some good insight.

should we tell the horndogs their efforts are having the opposite effect?

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