Jump to content

  • Welcome!

    Register and log in easily with Twitter or Google accounts!

    Or simply create a new Huddle account. 

    Members receive fewer ads , access our dark theme, and the ability to join the discussion!

     

Every once in a while.........

charlotte49er

By charlotte49er,
in Huddle Lounge

Recommended Posts

charlotte49er Newbie

charlotte49er

Posted
Posted

My Father died in 1990 a few days after Memorial Day. My mom died in 1994 around Mother's Day (Which is also near my Birthday.)

About 1992, I told my Mom that I knew my Father had at least 2 afairs with women while they were married. I also told her that it was none of my business, but how could she put up with it?

She told me I was right. It wasn't any of my business.

But she added that she could tell when my Father was starting to get serious, and she would step in and put a stop to it. (She didn't elaborate, and I didn't ask.)

She also said that it was something that she could always hold over him. End of conversation!

I'm pretty sure she had a small "fling" with a much younger male teacher. (I doubt that my Father ever caught on to that. I'm pretty sure he was busy boinking the big bossom bottle blonde he introduced me to.)

I never cheated while I was married. (Girlfriends are a different subject.)

I never heard them argue, or even say a cross thing to each other. Of course, I only saw my Father kiss my Mom once in 34 years!

That's pretty much it. Every one in a great while my conversation pops into my mind. I guess sometimes there aren't any anwers.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
j2sgam Collaborator

j2sgam

Posted
Posted

I cheated on the last real girlfriend I had before I met the woman is now my wife. Every day, every time I said 'I love you' was a lie and felt like it. The guilt had a hold of me and wouldnt let go. I learned from that experience. In the weeks leading up to my wedding date the place I worked at hired this gorgeous 1/2 Cuban, 1/2 Dominican chick, like 22 or close to that. Broad walked by the boss' office when I was telling him my fiance was going to DC for the weekend for her bachelorette party, then told me that I just had to tell her where and she'd meet me. I had to call a friend of mine and ahve him talk me down, it was a true test of will... I stood strong, didnt call or get up with broad and enjoy my marriage that much more because I am not living a lie...

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Butter Newbie

Butter

Posted
Posted

I never cheated while I was married. (Girlfriends are a different subject.)

Still the same,cheating is bad.

So its ok to cheat on your Gf but not your wife..Well I guess I better hurry up and get married !! :nono:

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Hawk Newbie

Hawk

Posted
Posted

in general, I totally agree...cheating is bad bad bad. I myself have committed to be in a long term relationship with just my wife and I intend on keeping that committment.

some people might think an open relationship is healthy and good for their marriage, and I'm in no position to argue with them about it. Wouldn't work for me.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Butter Newbie

Butter

Posted
Posted

in general, I totally agree...cheating is bad bad bad. I myself have committed to be in a long term relationship with just my wife and I intend on keeping that committment.

some people might think an open relationship is healthy and good for their marriage, and I'm in no position to argue with them about it. Wouldn't work for me.

:iagree:

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Archived

This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.

Go to topic listing

  • PMH4OWPW7JD2TDGWZKTOYL2T3E.jpg

  • Topics

  • Posts

    • SmokinwithWilly
      Panthers Sign QB Will Grier

      By SmokinwithWilly · Posted

      I'm really not stressing about upgrading from Bryce. I'm frustrated with our inability (or refusal) to recognize overall bad QB performance and failure to seriously address the issue. QB is the most impactful position on the field, and we're not only settling for what we've been given to this point, but we've rewarded it with a fully guaranteed 5th year extension for a player that's never played 2 NFL franchise QB quality games back to back in 3 seasons. I can't understand how that's ok from a coach's or GM's viewpoint. Successful franchises don't do things like this. It just doesn't make sense.  We do not have a top half of the league QB right now. Since we don't have that player, we should be looking for him. Pickett isn't it. Grier isn't it. Bryce hasn't proven he is yet. Until you have that sure fire franchise QB, you keep looking. You're not consistently making the playoffs, a deep run, or a SB appearance without one.  What's the worst that could happen? We end up with 2 potential number 1 QBs? How horrible. 
    • strato
      Panthers Sign QB Will Grier

      By strato · Posted

      Easy to understand Pickett, if this is anywhere close to on point. Canales wants to get as close to Bryce as he can- get the pace and timing in the throws as close a he can to Bryce. So the other players don’t have to adjust so much, to a new guy.       If Cam was the 1, he would look for a rocket arm.  But Bryce is the 1. Look for limited in the same way.  Low velocity, plenty of air under it, feels just like home when Picket comes in. And you have the guys on the second team not having such a radical adjustment (if they have to play) like with Dalton to Bryce.    Enter Grier. I guess we will collect those types.   
    • PleaseCutStewart
      My new favorite for #19.

      By PleaseCutStewart · Posted

      Best part is if we draft him, we can also use him as our fourth and one QB sneaker
×
×
  • Create New...