How did you know?

[TheRealDeal]

Seems like gold

[YoungPanthers89]

just ask.

[bleys]

actions speak louder than words..

[Mvp2014]

That's tricky. Just have to go with your instincts on this one. Show me your instincts! Seriously though, that could get akward if she's not into you.

[coxc63]

i just asked my girl about this topic and she says the girl has feelings for him, due to the simple fact that massaging eachother in bed, then cuddling to sleep are "intimate" actions shown by both him and her. so theres a connection there, just dont wait too long to make a move or the oppurtunity will pass.

If you like the girl as much as it seems, try your damnest to not make the timing awkward for either of you, that's bound to end badly and possibly jeopardise your friendship.

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

Damn this thread took off since I went out last night. Bleys, the girl I am talking about is the one in two most recent pictures of me on Facebook.

About your question, she will go out and dance on people but will make her way back to me to dance or get a drink together. In August I will be going out to Cali and while there I will meet her family for the first time and meet all of her girlfriends.

The thing is, being still young and in college, I guess I am just not willing to jeopardize what we have now or what could be by jumping the gun. As I said in my original post, I am content the way things are now but something is pulling me and making me think differently than usual.

[CRA]

Damn this thread took off since I went out last night. Bleys, the girl I am talking about is the one in two most recent pictures of me on Facebook.

About your question, she will go out and dance on people but will make her way back to me to dance or get a drink together. In August I will be going out to Cali and while there I will meet her family for the first time and meet all of her girlfriends.

The thing is, being still young and in college, I guess I am just not willing to jeopardize what we have now or what could be by jumping the gun. As I said in my original post, I am content the way things are now but something is pulling me and making me think differently than usual.

Dude, this chick is totally going waste some of your prime years. You don't wait around in the "friend zone" in college like that.....

How long has this been going on for?

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

The reason I say I am content is because I really haven't met anyone like her before. Every time I am with her it's just perfect. I have known her for probably 8-9 months but have only been really close for about 5-6.

[CRA]

The reason I say I am content is because I really haven't met anyone like her before. Every time I am with her it's just perfect. I have known her for probably 8-9 months but have only been really close for about 5-6.

too long. That is practically a school year of college.

Make your move tommorrow. Not the next day or next week or next month. There is no reason not to.....if you claim you don't want to ruin a good thing it likely just means you are scared to find out the truth.

not saying it won't happen, but everyone has been there or watched people in your EXACT same situation. Overwhelming majority wake up years later pissed off at how dumb they were.

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

I guess I am just afraid of finding out the truth. I cherish our friendship and would rather have her in my life like that than nothing at all. I'll wait however long it takes until the moment is right because I feel as though she is worth it.

At this point I think I am going to just give it space and try to talk less and less to her before I am actually in Cali. At least that is change and will switch things up a bit and I will be able to assess the situation and make moves from there.

[TheRealDeal]

Dick > Forehead is the only way to really find out

[YoungPanthers89]

whip it out billl clinton style

[CRA]

I guess I am just afraid of finding out the truth. I cherish our friendship and would rather have her in my life like that than nothing at all. I'll wait however long it takes until the moment is right because I feel as though she is worth it.

At this point I think I am going to just give it space and try to talk less and less to her before I am actually in Cali. At least that is change and will switch things up a bit and I will be able to assess the situation and make moves from there.

One day you will wake up as a 40 yr old working for the man and think about the year (or years) of your life IN COLLEGE this chick strung you along.....and all the missed college pu tang you let pass you by.

Good luck bro. Hope it works out for you.

[The Saltman]

I didnt realize how much of a pussy you were maine.