Question for the Fellas...

[Hawk]

if MPF would post her littlebits....I'd rub one out right here at work

[h0llywood]

I would say I average rubbing one out 2 nights a week with my wife sleeping next to me. I make sure she is snoring before I do and If she wakes up and asks me what i'm doing, I say i'm scratching my balls very vigorously.

[cookinwithgas]

I also like all the lights on when SCPs wife and I have sex, it's also good for the camera we are using to record it all to show him the day he walks in the house and tells his wife that he bought 2 more PSLs, whats for dinner?

[Password is Taco]

because watching a young lady with big firm tits and tight waist get plowed is more exciting than having sex with an older women in a night gown.

[SCP]

I also like all the lights on when SCPs wife and I have sex, it's also good for the camera we are using to record it all to show him the day he walks in the house and tells his wife that he bought 2 more PSLs, whats for dinner?

Ha! Touché

[Anybodyhome]

The likely facts:

1. Men are more visually stimulated than women. There is, after all, a reason porn is geared more towards men than women.

2. She is not coming off that a$$ as much as she say may say. Plain and simple- he ain't gettin' enough.

3. Regardless how beautiful, gorgeous, sensual or whatever your partner may be, there's always a fantasy out there waiting.

4. And gettin' it done with each other is very cool. I find it very stimulating watching a woman work her own magic on herself.

[charlotte49er]

Women tend to think that men who watch porn or look at pornographic pictures is likening to cheating or alienation of feelings.

I'm sure that does happen. Much like having a "Work Wife". However, studies have shown that it can actually increase a man's libido, to a point. Of course, you can watch too much porn. This is often called "Porn Creep". It's where you find if difficult to get an erection without the use of watching porn.

It's like the old Chocolate Cake vs Cherry Pie. When you are in a committed relationship, your having chocolate cake for the as long as the relationship lasts. Sex/chocolate cake with the same person is good at first, but you start to wonder if that piece of cherry pie wouldn't taste just as good, maybe better. If you are the sort of person that might act on trying a peice of cherry pie, or maybe you want something exotic as Flan, then watching porn will keep you from actually go out and acting on this.

Now if you have a partner who likes to watch it with you, or maybe spice things up and make you feel like your eating Cherry Pie then the need for Porn is diminished. Case in point, my Sister has over the years changed her hair style, hair color, wardrobe just about everything to keep it "fresh". Even to the point of wearing different color wigs. Of course, she's the one who likes to go out and get a piece of pie, flan, maybe devilsfood cake. I'm not sure she has ever met a stiff "batter" that she didn't like.

I would tell your friend not to worry about it, unless she sees signs that it's affecting his functioning during the real thing.

[charlotte49er]

because watching a young lady with big firm tits and tight waist get plowed is more exciting than having sex with an older women in a night gown.

Unless you like an older woman in a night gown.

It's like a shaved ******. When it was new, it was exciting and sexy. Nowadays, every woman from 16-60 has a shaved ******! (Either on your computer or in real life.) Now, I find a woman who doesn't have a shave ****** exciting. (I'm not talking about Sasquatch here.)

[Mrs Pantherfan]

saw this and immediately thought of this thread....

Every guy can relate to this

[Proudiddy]

saw this and immediately thought of this thread....

Every guy can relate to this

I was just talking to my friend the other day about this... That red portion was about 90% of that pie as a teenager, then, the older you get it shifts to this, lol.

[Guest]

More like this...

[Proudiddy]

Additionally, I'd like to add that if you can find it LiaG, look up an article entitled "The Porn Identity." It was in Men's Health last month I believe. It covers the subject from all aspects and I think it is extremely informative for men and women alike. It pretty much says men and women view porn differently. Men are visually stimulated creatures, much moreso than women, whereas women, IIRC, are much more "intimate." So often times for women who don't look at porn, they feel like men aren't interested in them or that "cheating" feeling if the man is looking at it on their own. Furthermore, the article stated that men are fulfilling a physiological need by looking at porn because naturally we're driven to "procreate."

In that drive to procreate, it referenced how throughout history both men and women sought out the most healthy looking mates to ensure survival and legacy (through children). For men, part of that "healthiness" we're looking for is big busts and curves in the right places, whether it's realistic or not. So, the article said the quick access to it on the internet makes it an easy simulation of procreating with as many women as possible without actually doing it. But again, men don't attach love or intimacy with it, whereas often women do.

The article was written by a woman by the way... It said it only becomes a problem if the man uses porn to replace meaningful interaction and relationships with actual women and additionally, it gave tips on giving up porn if you sense it is a problem.

In this case, I assume he didn't feel like dealing with the expectations or letdown of either being rebuffed trying to wake her up or getting sloppy, sleepy, "I'll just lay here" sex if she did let him have it. If they have an otherwise healthy relationship, I don't think it would be a problem... I think he didn't feel like waking her up.

[thefuzz]

I would just tell her to have a grown up discussion with him.

" I know what you are doing, and it makes me feel a bit insecure. Maybe let's both try to start handling our business more often instead of letting life get in the way"

She has to be ready to walk the walk though.

Many women find it tough to ask their man for loving for some reason....almost like womenz always want the man coming onto them.

[Hawk]

I was having a conversation with my neighbor friend and we got on the subject of how her husband had been jerking of to porn while she was sleeping in the next room. She was upset because "why would he want to jerk off to that when he could have the real thing in the bedroom".

I told her I didn't care if my hubby watched porn, I have watched it with him. It makes for some pretty exciting bedroom time. I've not ever has the issue she was talking about. I'm not a prude and I don't look down on porn and masterbation, but I have to say I would be a little hurt if I knew he was doing it while I was there.

So I was wondering if you fellas have done this with your SO in the next room and whether or not you feel like its wrong or right. Opinions?

so, what's site was Dan on when you caught him?