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My girlfriend wants to experiment with girls. (Please Help)

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Well, my girlfriend told me today that she'd like to try "things" with other girls. We are both relatively young, but I'm still not sure what to think of the matter..so i was looking for a few second opinion's about this. She said there would be no emotions attached, but I still feel in some way that I would be getting cheated on. I'm not sure if its because in a way I'm jealous or what. But, to be honest...I don't know what to think...and I was just looking to see what some others thought. Here is some random information..

She said that if I was not able to be understanding and what not..she'd want to break up with me...and find a guy that IS. I don't understand un-emotional sex. Well, any help ladies and gentleman? (serious answers please)

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Well, my girlfriend told me today that she'd like to try "things" with other girls. We are both relatively young, but I'm still not sure what to think of the matter..so i was looking for a few second opinion's about this. She said there would be no emotions attached, but I still feel in some way that I would be getting cheated on. I'm not sure if its because in a way I'm jealous or what. But, to be honest...I don't know what to think...and I was just looking to see what some others thought. Here is some random information..

She said that if I was not able to be understanding and what not..she'd want to break up with me...and find a guy that IS. I don't understand un-emotional sex. Well, any help ladies and gentleman? (serious answers please)

Any kind of love without passion

That ain't no kind of lovin' at all,

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I don't know how old you both are, but it sounds to me like she probably has a girlfriend is is either Bi or Gay. That GF is probably telling her how great it is to be with another girl who understand a woman's body.

If you like this girl, let her experiment and see if she comes back to you. More likely she wil find out the "grass isn't greener". But be prepared, this may take a while. Many women who are bi-curious, find that it isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Some really find what they are looking for.

It may take a few months to over a year. You have to decide if you are for sticking around to see how things turn out.

Good luck at whatever you decide.

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I would really get the details on how this might benefit you before you make your final decision. This is a good problem to have. Yes, I think it's stupid she'd break up with you for not being okay with it but it's also one of those things you might regret in the future if you don't see it through. Imagine hitting one from behind while she's slaying the other girls clam.

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It sounds like its already bothering you and nothings even happened yet. There is no doubt that the vagina is >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> than the penis. If she figures that out you will be the one hurting while she will be out having wild crazy hot lesbian sex. I would try to scale back your feelings a little and let her do it. You might get introduced to a whole new experience.

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How young is young? From my point of view, that is of an old married guy... I'd say go with Dimbee's advice... if she's talking experiment with you involved, by all means go for it... if it doesn't work out with you and her, so be it. I don't like the ultimatum part of it however... very immature.

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