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Your proposal


Ja  Rhule

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1st time - Sitting in my 85 Carmaro i handed her a ring box. "here" i said lol.

2nd time - I was in a custody battle with my daughters mom. I thought having a wife would help my case in the courts eyes so i asked my gf at the time if she would marry me. It worked out, and we split up a year later.

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I did a scavenger hunt and it turned out great imo. included hidden clues with photos or recordings on a cd that led to the next clue, with a clue waiting for her there when she arrived. went down a long road of memories for us for the 5+ years we had been dating. led to church where i had a slideshow of photos of us and our music playing where we had communion together and i proposed. wedding photographer was there to capture the whole experience. she said yes

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My plan was to do it over a romantic dinner at Union St Bistro in Concord, but she didn't like the food or service or something and was in a pretty crappy mood. So after dinner we strolled N on Union St and under one of their vintage street lamps I popped the question.

I thought she knew and was expecting it, but it caught her completely off guard.

It was great.

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The "here" idea is stupid. If you dont respect her more than to do something like that then you don't deserve her.

She is always going to remember the way you proposed.

In short, dont be a douche.

I totally agree. Don't be a douche. She will remember that moment for the rest of her life, and she will want to tell all her friends about that moment.

That's why when I did it, I tried a red ribbon around the ring.

I then tied the ring to my cock and told her if she could remove it with just her mouth, I'd marry her.

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We booked a trip in September to Sandals Montego Bay. I set her up a 1:30 spa session in advance. I spoke with the head spa lady, and asked if I could propose in the spa and she agreed to help me set it up. My now fiance went into the spa and had about an 1:15 minute spa, at that point, her masseuse excused herself from the room and I came in. I made sure the masseuse left a towel over her eyes, and sure enough she did. She didn't have any clue that the switch had been made, so i proceeded with the massage. I then slid the ring over her finger.

I guess if anything, i'm the only guy I know that proposed to his girlfriend while she was in the buff!

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We booked a trip in September to Sandals Montego Bay. I set her up a 1:30 spa session in advance. I spoke with the head spa lady, and asked if I could propose in the spa and she agreed to help me set it up. My now fiance went into the spa and had about an 1:15 minute spa, at that point, her missuse excused herself from the room and I came in. I made sure the missuse left a towel over her eyes, and sure enough she did. She didn't have any clue that the switch had been made, so i proceeded with the massage. I then slid the ring over her finger.

I guess if anything, i'm the only guy I know that proposed to his girlfriend while she was in the buff!

That's pretty cool. Nice job.

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We booked a trip in September to Sandals Montego Bay. I set her up a 1:30 spa session in advance. I spoke with the head spa lady, and asked if I could propose in the spa and she agreed to help me set it up. My now fiance went into the spa and had about an 1:15 minute spa, at that point, her missuse excused herself from the room and I came in. I made sure the missuse left a towel over her eyes, and sure enough she did. She didn't have any clue that the switch had been made, so i proceeded with the massage. I then slid the ring over her finger.

I guess if anything, i'm the only guy I know that proposed to his girlfriend while she was in the buff!

Best misspelling of "masseuse" ever! :p

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We were at my girl's parents house for a pre Christmas Eve drinks/dessert and my family was there as well. We don't get together for Thanksgiving because there are too many houses to visit so we always do it before Christmas Eve and her mom makes everyone say what they are grateful for the prior year and what we hope to accomplish in the upcoming year.

It went around the table and I was second to last and I said the usual stuff like family, friends, health etc then said I was specifically grateful for her and hoped to be married to her in the upcoming year then whipped it out (the ring ;)) and proposed.

Everyone at the table was in tears, except for me, I'm basically emotionless. It worked pretty well but only because we are both very family oriented and I knew she wouldn't mind her family being there. If you aren't sure, do it alone.

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My wife had a hint it was coming (twss?) as she was basically with me when I bought the ring...

I had it for a while before I gave it to her, and all I did was randomly drive us back to the place she met me for our first "date" (a parking lot of a convenience store/restaurant about halfway between her parents' house and my own) and opened up the glove box and handed it to her... I said something really cheezy like "this is where our love began, so I figured it would be a good place to officially start the first day of the rest of our lives... Will you marry me?"

Simple and cheesy... No stress involved... lol

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