Real Cheating

[Wither]

No matter what she says, she had been planning it for a while. I'm pretty sure she didn't just trip and fall on his cock.

So eloquent.

[Keep Pounding]

I was in the same position before and I got back with the girl that cheated on me, I should have just walked. At that time, Reason, I treated her like poo, did she deserve it? Yeah, but not from my actions, it got to the point that I treated her so bad, because I was so upset, and felt betrayed, I dogged her left and right, I cheated on her (never cheated on her before), I rubbed it in her face, I said hateful things, and I tore the heart out of her chest. I regret it so much now, not for her on sake, but for my own. Once a person becomes disloyal, you can never trust them. You always going to question them. IMO, I think most woman cheat, because they have an emotionally attachment to another, while most men cheat because we horn dogs, we can take a lady down and have no emotionally attached at all. I watched a Tyler Perry, I can't think of the movie now, but he touches on the same thing.

[Hawk]

sucks man...sorry to hear it.

for me, a relationship is based on trust and if she cheated on me, I'd never be able to fully trust her again and as hard as it would be, I'd have to break it off and start new...in your situation.

Now, I'm older, have kids and all that, so maybe I'd sing a different song if it happened to me now...but I'm not sure. We'd probably stay together until the kids are old enough and then it would end I think.

no trust = no relationship....that's the Hawk's opinion anywho

[Panthers128]

No matter what she says, she had been planning it for a while. I'm pretty sure she didn't just trip and fall on his cock.

This is what I thought when I read it was a coworker. Let's face it, it's highly unlikely she randomly decided to sleep with the guy at the spur of the moment. She probably flirted with the guy regularly and perhaps even cheated on you with him several times before.

I watch a lot of soap operas and rarely are these one-night stands. It's a culture and a philosophy the woman adapts. They don't see infidelity as a sin.

She obviously isn't as serious about relationships as you are. I recommend finding a more mature partner.

[Hawk]

oh, and for the record...the huddle has gotten real soft and/or slow

this far in and not a mention of pics???

[SmootsDaddy89]

fug her best friend.

[ladypanther]

Sorry to hear of this KB. Trust is everything. Without it, there is nothing.

You deserve better. Spend some time with people you know care about you. Take care of yourself....and move forward as best you can.

Sometimes life sucks....but never compromise.

[Panthro]

Coworker? Damn that means it was premeditated...

And she went out with her gfs???? They are a bunch of whores too if they let this happen on their watch

[Guest Bwood]

I'm truly sorry man.

I wouldn't go back to her, but that's on you. If you choose not to though, you need to get a nut ASAP.

[Guest Irv]

shave your head and say you have cancer, if you never see her again then you know shes a no good cheating ***** bitch.

[FurdTurgason]

Bring a ***** home.

[Jim Harbaugh]

No matter what she says, she had been planning it for a while. I'm pretty sure she didn't just trip and fall on his cock.

Love Skew's bedside manor. :P

But yeah I don't know if I could ever get to a place where I'd be OK she was bangin some guy while we were playing house. Fug that.

Panthro's 30 day away plan is the best start.

[Panthercougar68]

Road Trip

[Chimera]

I'm on the "coworker = premeditated" bandwagon. For her to feel comfortable enough to spend the night with him and brush it off as you described, I'd put money on it that it wasn't the first time.

I don't think the 30 day plan is that great an idea if you want to try to work things out. I've tried that before and I found something out: Likely to be "tainted" by several other guys. I always recommend forgiving, but I never recommend forgetting.

I've been married for over 11 years now. I couldn't imagine starting all over again. But trust really is everything.