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Would you become romantically involved with someone that has an infant?

Floppin

By Floppin,
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Well, this escalated quickly...................

 

 

All I can say is, don't let a baby chase you away, if anything, you can be involved in the child's life from early on (if indeed you want to settle down).  I don't have children of my own, but I always thought that the one thing MOST of us COULD accomplish in life is being a good father, we may not all be rich or famous, but you can at least be a good father and be there.  Even though you aren't the real father, you can still be a large part of the kid's life.  I just wouldn't involve kids with each other until you are more serious and months in, with the baby it probably doesn't matter, but with your daughter, don't let her get close to the girl and then it ends.  Too many parents push in new people in their kid's lifes only to end the relationship a month later.  It really messes with kids.  This was probably a tangent, sorry.

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Hawk Newbie

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Floppy...I've  changed your name by the way....don't worry...once I marry your mother in law, I'll be moving you and your girlfriend and her child up to Canada and we'll get all that poo removed from your record.  We'll all live as one big happy family!!! 

 

PS...please PM pics of your new family so I know who to pick up from the airport.

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Well, this escalated quickly...................

All I can say is, don't let a baby chase you away, if anything, you can be involved in the child's life from early on (if indeed you want to settle down). I don't have children of my own, but I always thought that the one thing MOST of us COULD accomplish in life is being a good father, we may not all be rich or famous, but you can at least be a good father and be there. Even though you aren't the real father, you can still be a large part of the kid's life. I just wouldn't involve kids with each other until you are more serious and months in, with the baby it probably doesn't matter, but with your daughter, don't let her get close to the girl and then it ends. Too many parents push in new people in their kid's lifes only to end the relationship a month later. It really messes with kids. This was probably a tangent, sorry.

That is absolutely not a tangent. In fact, IMO it is the most relevant post so far.

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Johnny Rockets

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There is a lot to read in this thread but I think I got it:

 

 Someone mailed Floppin an infant to his front door step, receiving an infant through the mail is apparently illegal (how silly) so the cops arrested him, and now he is dating his boss' daughter and his boss just happens to be a former girlfriend of his who may be his future mother in law and Hawk who is Floppin's step daddy is movinng to the US to be closer to him.  

 

Nailed it didn't I?

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Personally, unless you think there is something really good that could come of it, I wouldn't.

 

If the company is extremely strong and the both of you have great chemistry....maybe, and hope to fall into the owners chair one day.

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They were lifelong friends who started a serious relationship. They lived together. He was in the military and bailed on her when she got pregnant and took a recruiting position in another state. The story that I get, more or less, is that he panicked. Either way, he's in a relationship with someone else and lives in Maryland.

Who is he? Ill beat his ass for you

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It depends.  How would you like to proceed with her if she didn't have any loin fruit?  If you have an interest in her that's mutual, sure, why not?  The opinion of EVERYONE is going to be different about getting involved with a woman with a kid.  Nobody's opinion is going to help you because it's all going to boil down to personal preference.

 

As far as being the bosses daughter, it depends on the job.  Are you making 100K, or, is this a job that any huddler could have by noon tomorrow as long as they have a warm body and can draw a breath?

 

 

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