What the hell is wrong with women?!

[Cat]

i seriously doubt my wife has ever masturbated in her life. being socialized in a super conservative fundamentalist religious environment and being surrounded her whole life by like-minded people probably had something to do with it.

 

 

Didn't stop me. 

 

I remember youth service were it was addressed, it was always talked about regarding boys. At some point I realized I was doing that same thing, felt guilty for a while, then figured it wasn't involving anyone else so whats the big deal. 

[Cat]

 

Men can have multiple orgasms as well though. 

 

 

I am not aware of this. Do you mean like 30 mins apart or within a few mins?

[Peppers90 NC]

any of the women here wish to comment?

 

what i have learned, that girls either love sex or dont care about it.  my hunch is either way it stems from childhood. 

[PandaPancake]

I am not aware of this. Do you mean like 30 mins apart or within a few mins?

Ejaculation is only part of an orgasm for men. Studying tantra is where you can get an idea.

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[Cat]

Ejaculation is only part of an orgasm for men. Studying tantra is where you can get an idea.

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My interested is piqued. I have to look into this just not at work :)

[boo7382]

I use to think most women didn't do it and I was some fuged up freak. As I got older I assumed most women did it but rarely talked about it because it was too taboo.   Guess i am a freak.

 

 

WHELP, go ahead and put me in the minority category for age group 25-29......even higher minority category if le bf is out of town.

 

You're not a freak......lots of women do masturbate and just don't admit it, I wonder if that played a part in the women they polled.

 

Lots of women also assume that if they are doing that, it means there is lacking somewhere else in the relationship.

 

Neither are true in my opinion, you can only learn more about yourself which in turn helps you to help your significant other in many ways, one of which is getting you off faster. If you don't know your body and what you like, how can he?

 

On a side note- do guys really not talk about sex/sex related topics? My bf went to a bachelor party this weekend and I told him his project was to nonchalantly talk to the guys about what they do and what their girls like. I was hoping this would open his mind about things we do and to realize that everyone likes to get freaky in the bedroom in one way or another. After a few drinks, of course, once everyone is a bit loosened up.

 

His response to that was 'guys don't talk about that kind of stuff'.....

 

is that for real? b/c I can confidently say that when I'm with my girlfriends and we have a couple drinks, the topic that is always front and center is sex, foreplay, men, etc. 

 

Plus, after reading everything you guys put on this forum, its hard to believe it never comes up. 

[PandaPancake]

My interested is piqued. I have to look into this just not at work :)

Takes practice. Here's a clean article on how stuff works.

http://health.howstuffworks.com/sexual-health/sexuality/tantric-sex-dictionary5.htm

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[Cat]

Lots of women also assume that if they are doing that, it means there is lacking somewhere else in the relationship.

 

Neither are true in my opinion, you can only learn more about yourself which in turn helps you to help your significant other in many ways, one of which is getting you off faster. If you don't know your body and what you like, how can he?

 

 

 

 

Totally agree.

 

I read an article the other week where it said women masturbate to feel wanted which makes no sense to me at all. What does self pleasure have to do with feeling wanted. (btw this was from a religious source).  I don't get why people are always try to breakdown female masturbation to some deeper "problem" or "issue". Why can't it be just because it feels fuging amazing.

[PhillyB]

Plus, after reading everything you guys put on this forum, its hard to believe it never comes up. 

 

i think stuff like this comes up on forums so frequently because it comes up so seldom irl.

[PhillyB]

(for guys)

[Zcustom]

"Guy talk" is typically so misogynistic rarely do any real conversations occur. The amount of social conditioning in the average male is a bit frightening.

[Jase]

when I'm with my best male friends we often just pull out the ol' tallywhackers and compare length and general wear and tear.

[Wyank]

I am not aware of this. Do you mean like 30 mins apart or within a few mins?

 

Both.  

 

I've had multiple cumming orgasm within few mins during same session (3 times in a few minutes between). This is rare for me though.

I have had multiple over time (most for this scenario was cumming twice).  Although erection quality suffers after cumming.  

 

I've also had dry orgasms where you don't cum but you get the rest of the sensations without the loss of erection quality that happens when you cum.  Pretty much when you get the feeling your about to cum, you use your pelvic muscles to pinch it off.  Takes time and practice but eventually you can get it to where you feel everything like you had a full release but you actually don't cum and don't loose any erection quality.  Sometimes it takes a little longer for the next time you orgasm during same sex session.  Other times it can happen frequently until you decide not to pinch it off anymore.

[PandaPancake]

when I'm with my best male friends we often just pull out the ol' tallywhackers and compare length and general wear and tear.

I'm so glad I grew up in a geek culture and we talk about things like comic books and video games instead of hating women or discussing conquests.

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