How did you know?

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

I didnt realize how much of a pussy you were maine.

When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

[bleys]

I had this convo last year with a really good friend of mine.. one of my best "girlfriends".. we used to date several years back and our chemistry is off the charts. this time around I felt like I was ready to try again, a little more serious without being a douche, but it was obvious we weren't going to work as a couple.. so we decided to keep it as friends.

with you having no history with her, she's most likely just as curious as you are. if the 2 of you really are tight, you both will get past however it goes.

truth be told, you are in your college years. I don't know if you realize this, but the friends you have now will rarely be a tightnit group down the road. friends last a season, a reason, or a lifetime.. majority of them fall in the 1st 2 categories. rarely do they fall in the last, and those you have to cherish and give eternal forgiveness..

chances are low you 2 will be the bestest friends for the rest of your life. that's just the way life is and you 2 don't really get to make that choice. it just happens.

if I were you.. I would go for gold, instead of living in regret later down the road. if the friendship is truly for a lifetime, this would be a minor speed bump..

live it up.. that's what college is all about anyhow..

edit: btw, she's hot..

[The Saltman]

When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

better to make a move then be another one of her girlfriends.

Not trying to make fun of you just saying what i'm thinking.

[Kettle]

When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

you shouldn't be. you keep playing around and one day all she'll be is a girl you drool over on facebook.

[4Corners]

If I am not trying to hit it, I damn sure ain't giving out massages and sleeping in the bed with her.

I'm telling you dude I bet the girl thinks he is a homo

[Davidson Deac II]

When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

Going slow means you give someone else more chances. You have to strike while the iron is hot. Wait to long and you become just a friend with little chance of every being anything else.

[OnlyPantherFaninMaine]

Damn you all are good with this sort of stuff, I suppose it comes with the few extra years you have on me living on this planet :D

There isn't a doubt in my mind that we will be the best of friends for a long time, it's tough to predict the future but what we have no isn't something I've ever really had before and I don't plan on letting it go anytime soon.

[CRA]

all of the college "pu tang" in the world aint worth a lifetime with the right one.

OPF if you think she might be the one don't do anything stupid. Don't start talking to her less, or anything that would make her think you've lost interest. I'd look for a time when you are in Cali to bring it up. Let her know how you feel and if poo is as perfect with her as you think she will probably be glad you did.

he ain't with this chick....she is out hooking up with other guys.

if you are lucky enough to live the college experience....you gotta live it. Or maybe he should do like you suggest and wait another 6 months while she falls for a guy while he is busy trying to be the perfect friend.

I wish the kid luck with her since he clearly likes her....but wasted time is wasted time. He need to quit hanging around in the friendzone now....not delay it anymore.

[The Saltman]

Most Men that have gotten with the love of their life has had to take a risk.

This risk could have ended badly but at least they took that risk.

If you don't take risks in life all you end up with are regrets.

Regrets suck assholes.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

when I was a young lass around your age...I was friends with a guy..we hung out all the time..yadda yadda yadda..until one night when we were hammered and he brought up the fact that he was in love with me, kissed me..I had never really thought about him that way...

fast forward six months later to when he completely shattered my heart....let's just say that I fell for it and his little speech worked....bastard :)

[4Corners]

Most Men that have gotten with the love of their life has had to take a risk.

This risk could have ended badly but at least they took that risk.

If you don't take risks in life all you end up with are regrets.

Regrets suck assholes.

Kidding aside, this is a valid point.

Those who hesitate......masturbate.

Maine I bet you got a big ass right arm.

[4Corners]

when I was a young lass around your age...I was friends with a guy..we hung out all the time..yadda yadda yadda..until one night when we were hammered and he brought up the fact that he was in love with me, kissed me..I had never really thought about him that way...

fast forward six months later to when completely shattered my heart....let's just say that I fell for it and his little speech worked....bastard :)

did you just yada yada sex

[The Saltman]

and besides King Klong most people aren't into sucking assholes.

[PanthaSan]

Going slow means you give someone else more chances. You have to strike while the iron is hot. Wait to long and you become just a friend with little chance of every being anything else.

^^^^^^This^^^^^^