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Would you become romantically involved with someone that has an infant?

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I ask this because there's this girl that's quite obviously interested in me romantically and I'll admit that she's smoking hot. Problem is that she has a three month old son who's father ran out while she was still pregnant. 

 

She also happens to be my bosses daughter.......

 

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The bosses daughter part would bother me more than the kid.

Kids do add a challenge to starting a new relationship tho, for sure. My fiance has two, both boys. The oldest ones dad passed away and the young ones dad is a worthless pos that hasnt seen him in the almost two years that ive been around. He calls about once a month wanting to see her though and asking if im still around and acts like the boy is just a secondary issue.

You get attached to them. If you already have a kid its kinda weird, at least it was for me. Its definitely a challenge.

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The bosses daughter part would bother me more than the kid.

Kids do add a challenge to starting a new relationship tho, for sure. My fiance has two, both boys. The oldest ones dad passed away and the young ones dad is a worthless pos that hasnt seen him in the almost two years that ive been around. He calls about once a month wanting to see her though and asking if im still around and acts like the boy is just a secondary issue.

You get attached to them. If you already have a kid its kinda weird, at least it was for me. Its definitely a challenge.

 

I have a four year old daughter. 

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I ask this because there's this girl that's quite obviously interested in me romantically and I'll admit that she's smoking hot. Problem is that she has a three month old son who's father ran out while she was still pregnant. 

 

She also happens to be my bosses daughter.......

 

Thoughts?

If your Boss is reasonably well off and is helping her take care of her kid, then she may actually be interested in you.

 

but there was this one girl that was straight up hitting on me in the apartment complex where I live right now and then found out she had a 2mo and I'm pretty sure she's just looking for a Baby Daddy and not actually interested in me at all. so yeah, my first order of business would be to find out if she's actually interested in you or just looking for a baby daddy, and with the kid being that young I imagine it's the baby daddy she's looking for.

 

You can call me judgmental if you want, but if the girl gets pregnant with someone that she's not in a serious relationship or married to? that to me shows a severe lack of judgement that I can't even see myself getting involved in, she would have to be smarter then that.

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If your Boss is reasonably well off and is helping her take care of her kid, then she may actually be interested in you.

 

but there was this one girl that was straight up hitting on me in the apartment complex where I live right now and then found out she had a 2mo and I'm pretty sure she's just looking for a Baby Daddy and not actually interested in me at all. so yeah, my first order of business would be to find out if she's actually interested in you or just looking for a baby daddy, and with the kid being that young I imagine it's the baby daddy she's looking for.

 

You can call me judgmental if you want, but if the girl gets pregnant with someone that she's not in a serious relationship or married to? that to me shows a severe lack of judgement that I can't even see myself getting involved in, she would have to be smarter then that.

Condoms break. Birth control isn't 100. Not saying that's why she got pregnant cause more than likely she was jus taking raw dick but you get the idea.

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You can call me judgmental if you want, but if the girl gets pregnant with someone that she's not in a serious relationship or married to? that to me shows a severe lack of judgement that I can't even see myself getting involved in, she would have to be smarter then that.

 

They were lifelong friends who started a serious relationship. They lived together. He was in the military and bailed on her when she got pregnant and took a recruiting position in another state. The story that I get, more or less, is that he panicked. Either way, he's in a relationship with someone else and lives in Maryland. 

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For the moment, suspend the thought of her having an infant, and your having a daughter. Find out if you like this girl, not because she's hot (doesn't hurt tbh), and if you could see being in a relationship with her. If you can, I say give it a try, but don't involve the kids unless/until things get more serious. If you can't, then move along and try and deflect any attempts of hers ot steer any conversations towards dating.

 

The whole "boss's daughter" thing is a whole other mess you have to deal with. The kids though, nah.. too many folks have kids and broken relationships these days. Of course, be careful of the whole baby's daddy thing, but don't let it keep you from attempting to have a terrific relationship. What person can say they never made any huge mistakes in their life?

 

I certainly can't. So give it a whirl if you want, and don't stress.

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