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Black sheep of your family...


Samuel L. Jackson

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What is the worst one in yours?

I described one of mine, my cousin, in pstall's lottery thread, but said cousin's sister is even worse...

She has:

Had a baby with a crackhead, who later in life was hit by a train (no, the crackhead wasn't trying to slap it)... Thankfully, the baby (now 16 years old) turned out alright from her rough childhood, even though she has had some behavioral/emotional/attention needing problems throughout her life (which were no fault of her own)...

Had twins with a married man...

Lost all 3 of her kids in some fashion to social services (the first is now custody of cousin's mom (not blood kin to me), and the twins were adopted out)...

Continuously used and abused my grandmother (RIP) and my grandpa...

At one point, they were letting her rent out a house they owned, but she never really paid rent, and constantly had abusive boyfriends up there (even after she had taken out papers on them) and had my grandpa (in his late 70's at the time) dragging one of them out of a closet while pounding his face in one night (he tells this story like he was so proud of knocking this guy around at his age... haha)...

My grandpa just recently bought her a new car, with the agreement that she would pay him $200 a month for a while... He hasn't heard from her since the day she bought it (at least 6 months ago)... not even to say "hello"...

and soooo much more that I wish I could remember right now...

It sucks to see him being used like he has been, but hopefully he has realized how she is...

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My family is chock full of saints compared to yours. My cousin is the black sheep, he's been completely nuts all his life. His goal when he was a kid was to be "just like me" to the point that he joined the Navy, went into subs, became a sonar tech on a boomer...

He's living in Thailand now teaching English and has a hot girlfriend half his age who he met in Boston when he was selling phones who is back in Thailand with him now. They appear to be having a great time.

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My aunt has been married 5 times (that we know of). Twice to the same guy. 3 of them to Arabs! OH NOES!!!! She use to date a bunch of Arab's too! Anyways she has always lived in and out of my grandma's house. She has 3 kids.

The first two share the same daddy. He now lives back in Saudia Arabia. They were always worried he was going to take the kids from school or in the yard playing and take them to Saudia Arabia. I always liked the guy, he was really funny and cool to be around. Now that the kids are older they go and see him and all the drama is gone. I think it was just my aunt being crazy. She's always been on a lot of medicines and i think she is just mentally fuged up.

Her 3 child is a sweet heart. Her dad is from Lebanon. We found out he signed his brothers name on their marriage license and his daughters birth certificate to get his brother in the country. He disappeared and no one can find him. Oh yeah he used to beat her too.

She is currently married to a guy from Syria and they've been married for about 5 years!!! hopefully she is happy and things are going well! Her dad died when she was 15 and from what I undertand it just set off a chain of bad events in her life. I think she got pregant at 17 and had an abortion. Which didn't go over well with my very conservative family. Not to mention everyone in my family (except her mom) was super judgemental and all in her business when it really was none of their concern.

I'm pretty sure their is other stuff i just can't remember.

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