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5 year anniversery gift and date ideas.

Dex

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It's still a couple months away. I'm not throwing a fuging ring on it so just stahp. We don't live together either. She's 21 and I'm 23. I'd like to hear your ideas or what you did for yours. I was thinking maybe a nice hotel for the night, aquarium, dinner and late night fuging for a date?

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What would I get, what would I get.....

Oh, I got it, get the fug out. The next 5 years of your life may be your best. You probably don't want to be with a girl over the next 5 that you were with since she was 16.

I knew this was coming...
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I knew this was coming...

 

He has a point though, don't dismiss it...

 

...and don't think that we're slamming you, we're not.  

 

Point is, you're young... if you're with her, and not going to marry her, you're limiting you and her.

 

I'm NOT saying get married if you're not ready for that (I don't think you should get married until you're about 35 anyway)... but I am echoing fuzz...  get out there and live bro, if she's not the one, find out who is.

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I have concert t-shirts older than you both...

 

But yeah, dude, what Darth said. You are young, but you're not kids anymore, so stop jerking each other around and start talking like adults about your relationship. What's the end game? If you're not getting married, then why waste each other's time in a "committed" relationship that has reached its pinnacle? 

 

Or are you both just kinda hanging with each other until someone better comes along and then you have to (unintentionally or intentionally) hurt the other person?

 

By all means go out and enjoy the date and have a good time, but at some point you need to address the 800lb gorilla in the room.

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Don't mind them. Your idea sounds solid.

That said, MOST chicks going into year 5 would be thinking ring ring ring ring.

Every relationship is different, you know what she

Ike's, work off that and be original. Thought into gift > money spent. At least this is true with the good ones

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I knew this was coming...

 

Not trying to put you down, or pick on you at all.

 

 

I was in a "serious" relationship much like yours, and when we were in college, she started thinking ring.  I had to do some serious soul searching and decided that she was not the girl that I wanted to be with forever.  Instead of dragging it out any more, I broke it off, and lived pretty crazy for a few years.

 

 

I met lot's of connections during that time, and my professional and my personal life got much better.  Now I'm with the girl I will marry in 2 months.

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