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My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me - For Good.


TNPanther

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I had driven five hours to see her this weekend. Tonight, she broke up with me over text. We were long distance but I really liked her and thought she could be the one some day. I'm in so much emotional pain that I really don't know what to do with myself. I'm too depressed to get out of bed and go to class or do anything. Any suggestions? I know I may seem like a little ****** to some of you but I'm an emotional guy with a big heart.

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Get out of bed and go to class, would be a starter. Second f her, go out and have some fun, you're in college for fug sake. Hang out with your friends, do poo and get your mind off of her. Then before you know it, you'll have someone else in your life.

This.

It might be hard getting the drive to go to class, but do it. It's one more thing to occupy your mind.

Call up your friends, have fun. Whether that's going to a bar, a club, parties, get out there and do it.

Best way to get her off your mind is talk to other girls. If you've been out the game a little while you might be rusty, but do it anyways. It'll help.

All in all, try not to think about it right now. Once all the emotion is out of it, you can deal with it, and try to bring yourself closure if need be.

Protip, long distance relationships pretty much never work, from experience. Both parties have to be emotionally mature, and both have to be able to resist advances of the opposite sex. Good luck in bringing two of the same type together like that.

Try to avoid them in the future.

Let's be honest. She wasn't the woman you thought she was, if she broke up over a text. Not even worth spending any of your time thinking about it anymore.

Just do you.

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there is no cure for a broken heart like traveling.

you can be completely crushed and broken and sunken into the depths of emotional chaos but when the seat belt sign turns on your past turns off and suddenly the snack cart is more important than your fractured heart and when you touch down in a foreign land there is exploration in your mind and adventure in your heart, and no room for heartbreak.

if you don't have a passport go get one, take a semester off school if you can afford to, buy a roundtrip ticket to central or south america and stay in hostels and backpack around for a couple of months. you'll never ever ever ever ever regret it.

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Man the fug up and get on with your life.

As callous as that sounds that’s what’s at the bottom of all of the platitudes about keeping your mind off of it.

She wasn’t the right one or at the very least not at the right time.

You can’t change that.

Stop letting it dictate how you feel.

Pick yourself up, rub some dirt on it, move on.

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Oddly similar to my ex. Drove 4 hours to see her, and she dumped me after letting me in and feeding me lunch. If you can find my thread on this (I believe I posted it sometime between December 10th and the 20th), there is some sound advice. Basically, within a few weeks, I'd already hooked up with a chick better looking than my ex.

Get over it. Get out there. Once you hook up with a chick or two, you forget almost entirely. Just don't get emotionally involved. You probably feel a ton of rejection right now, so getting emotionally attached to another female who will most likely not be into a relationship right now will keep you in that state of rejection and you'll feel worse. It sounds shallow, but go looking for ass, not love. We're in college, man. Life is short. You make it what it's worth.

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