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Trying to pump myself up for this game

chknwing

By chknwing,
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iamhubby1 Veteran

iamhubby1

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So sorry for your loss. Losing a parent sucks. You will miss them the rest of your life. There will be things that remind you of them as long as you live. You will never forget them. So do not fret that you are doing a disservice.

 

But...this is YOUR life. Sure you have to honor their memory. But you HAVE to live your life.

 

You have already done the right things. Now do what is right for you. Keep Pounding.

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CrazyAnimal8 Newbie

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17 hours ago, chknwing said:

So Panthers win the NFC Championship. Purchased my Super bowl trip. Ticket in hand and excited.  Life is good.  At least it was.  Ive been taking care of my father since 2009 when he had a stroke and mom had passed away.  Suffering from dementia and late stage congestive heart failure, dad passed away Wednesday morning.  With the need to set up funeral arrangements etc.  I haven't had much time to grieve just yet and haven't even thought about this game at all.  With $7K invested in this trip the consensus was for me to go.  Just having a difficult time focusing on it.

Pump yourself up with this and I will assure you that you will remain pumped... 

 

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We all deal with things in different way's.  Personally when my brother died ( he was my best friend my entire life up to that point ) I couldn't have cared less about anything for the next month.  I was severely depressed for many years but the first few months was extremely hard for me.  Since he passed before football season, it really did not affect how I watch games and all that but other things in my life...I just shut down completely.  I couldn't be out in public long for the first 2 weeks, I would cry uncontrollably many times during the day.   I know my Brother would have wanted me to continue on, enjoy the rest of my life and I am sure you father would also but again, we all deal with things in different way's.  On a physical and emotional level, I probably couldn't bring myself to go but again that is me and how I handled that situation.  

 

Sorry for you loss man..... :(

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DamnItJake! Grand Master

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On 2/6/2016 at 0:29 AM, chknwing said:

So Panthers win the NFC Championship. Purchased my Super bowl trip. Ticket in hand and excited.  Life is good.  At least it was.  Ive been taking care of my father since 2009 when he had a stroke and mom had passed away.  Suffering from dementia and late stage congestive heart failure, dad passed away Wednesday morning.  With the need to set up funeral arrangements etc.  I haven't had much time to grieve just yet and haven't even thought about this game at all.  With $7K invested in this trip the consensus was for me to go.  Just having a difficult time focusing on it.

First off sorry for your loss!!! Dude just try to  enjoy the game.. thats what he will wanted u to do!!Especially  he's a Panther fan.... dude I could careless because I would be dead..but I am sure will smile on u when the Panthers win!!

 

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